I hope you had great 2015? if you think you didn’t gain or achieved anything…still thank God for life because that gives us hope of a better tomorrow.  2015 will be great
I’m a faithful follower of @lekealder on twitter and I learnt few lessons from his letters to both jack and jill.
Here are the lessons I learnt which I think some other people will benefit from.( letter to jack- male|guys|men)

  1. it’s not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying, it’s self-discipline
  2. you need discipline before and after marriage
  3. pray for a woman who cares about you, who sees your success as her success and her success as yours
  4. love is a friendship of the heart
  5. Learn to take responsibility for a natural consequences of your action… Be a man
  6. if you can’t afford the home of your own it just means you’re not ready for marriage… get your own home
  7. don’t marry what you can’t afford
  8. Nothing is as depressive as being locked up for eternity in a marriage with someone you don’t like
  9. if you loose a good woman, go and beg her; woo her back, before another comes to take your place
  10. loving takes effort. Loving is responsibility. Just try, that’s all it takes.
  11. when you want to choose a marriage partner, think of the future not just now and certainly not just for sex.
  12. A bad marriage starts with the wrong choice of partner… not because they are bad people but just bad for each other.
  13. if character can make someone beautiful, a deficiency of it can make someone patently ugly. character is beauty!
  14. you have to become successful before you become successful…lesson learnt from Joseph. he was successful even as a slave!
  15. Tolerating in courtship what you can’t accommodate in marriage is a creative process for pain and anger
  16. manhood is not emotionlessness. It is not a lack of empathy. A man lacking in empathy is psychopathic
  17. if you can’t trust someone don’t marry the someone
  18. Responsibility defines a man , not virility.
  19. As per your wife, if you want to be a man who “hit it first”, the women you hit first , who will marry them?
  20. it is not where you start that matters. it is your determination to keep going, to keep pushing, on the inside of you
  21. will  you be ready for your opportunity when the time comes
  22. your determination to succeed will impact your girlfriend’s love for you…let’s be real

thanks and I hope guys will follow uncle Leke Alder on twitter just to check his letters.

Happy new year in advance… much love from ADENIKE




Posted by The Sent Nurse Adenike

I am The Sent Nurse,My real name is Adenike Oladmeji. I refer to myself as “the sent nurse” because I strongly believe I have an assignment not just as a regular nurse but to care for people in their lowest state beyond the physical needs. Also most of my patients fondly call me "the sent nurse"because of the way I have cared for them. The peculiarity of my profession for me is that it has moved beyond being just a nurse that takes care of the body, but one that takes care of the soul/mind and spirit of a human being. I care for the threefold man – the body, the soul/mind and the spirit. I am a very proud and enthusiastic registered nurse, and I currently practice with Roding Healthcare in Lagos, Nigeria. Added to my skill and expertise in taking care of your soul / mind, I am also a certified emotional intelligence, health/wellness and life coach. To further carry my message and passion for both my calling/profession and the three-fold man, I own a blog (www.thesentnurse.com) that focuses on faith and health related topics and discussions. I also speak at events, conferences and seminars, both Nationwide and Internationally. As an entrepreneur, I manage the operations of Ewaade beauty store (@ewaadebeautystore) , a beauty store that operates majorly via social media, providing quality cosmetics and beauty products to every female of all levels. At Ewaade beauty store, enhancing your true beauty is our goal because we believe there is no flaw in you (you are altogether beautiful). We provide you a balance of the best quality and cheapest prices.

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