Hello sweets,
hope you’ve been good? Welcome to July, I wish you a month full of blessings.
Oh yeah, it is very cool to be beautifully cute and pretty in fact, spend money on quality make-up kits/cosmetics, skin care products etc. because your appearance matters.
But more than the pretty face and good physical appearance the society and most especially your future /life partner want to see whose presence you carry spiritually (your spiritual content). How is your spirit and your heart? Are you kind? Do you have values that worth partnering with? How is your character and attitude? Are you a peacemaker or troublemaker?
What’s your quota to your family, community, friends, and your husbands or husband-to-be.?
If you enter the relationship based on your attractiveness only, it can’t sustain you in the marriage. Need will arise for you to make tangible contributions and decisions, meanwhile, men likes a woman they can rub minds with, those that can give meaningful ideas, women with creative and critical thinking.
Get yourself equipped, as you buy cosmetics, get relevant books, learn vocational skills, and be business minded. If beauty alone can sustain marriage, beautiful models, singers, and actresses should be the happiest wives on the surface of earth.
Have ever wonder, why do some husbands divorce their beautiful wives for house maids? Well, from my findings I got to know that most house girls has virtues that most girls/ladies doesn’t have… while they are busy taking care of their skin and pretty face, house girls were in the process of making, of course they don’t have money to beautify the external, but they had strength and skills! They became humble under due and thorough trainings.
We spend hours at the salon/cosmetologist shops as if that’s all that matter! While housemaids make food/snacks and set the table for our husbands and kids…
And to our men, if you are still thinking that a reasonable and ambitious woman will choose a man with six packs/ well-built muscles / nice haircut and a cool face over a man that’s kind, godly, good thinker, hardworking and any other good virtues, then you need to wake up from your dream… not all women cherishes the outward appearance! It fades as you age!
There has to be more to you than your pretty face and sexy shape, babe. Be Equipped!!!
OR
The question we should ask is “what is/are your criteria(s) when considering who to marry?”
Your comments and contributions are welcome….
Do have a lovely week
Adenike Oladimeji

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Posted by The Sent Nurse Adenike

I am The Sent Nurse,My real name is Adenike Oladmeji. I refer to myself as “the sent nurse” because I strongly believe I have an assignment not just as a regular nurse but to care for people in their lowest state beyond the physical needs. Also most of my patients fondly call me "the sent nurse"because of the way I have cared for them. The peculiarity of my profession for me is that it has moved beyond being just a nurse that takes care of the body, but one that takes care of the soul/mind and spirit of a human being. I care for the threefold man – the body, the soul/mind and the spirit. I am a very proud and enthusiastic registered nurse, and I currently practice with Roding Healthcare in Lagos, Nigeria. Added to my skill and expertise in taking care of your soul / mind, I am also a certified emotional intelligence, health/wellness and life coach. To further carry my message and passion for both my calling/profession and the three-fold man, I own a blog (www.thesentnurse.com) that focuses on faith and health related topics and discussions. I also speak at events, conferences and seminars, both Nationwide and Internationally. As an entrepreneur, I manage the operations of Ewaade beauty store (@ewaadebeautystore) , a beauty store that operates majorly via social media, providing quality cosmetics and beauty products to every female of all levels. At Ewaade beauty store, enhancing your true beauty is our goal because we believe there is no flaw in you (you are altogether beautiful). We provide you a balance of the best quality and cheapest prices.

One Comment

  1. Adenike Adewuyi July 3, 2016 at 5:02 pm

    Is this man a child of God. Does He know God and work with Him? Bcos the heart of a man is desperately wicked and only God know a TRUE FRIEND and PATNER. Does he have a good relationship with plp around him? Only God can make a man and a suitable helper for him.

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